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What If Your Current Home is Your Forever Home?

If you haven’t already, embrace your current space

Sondra Rose Marie
3 min readJan 27, 2023
Photo by Lui Peng on Unsplash

My wife and I live in a one-bedroom apartment in a lower-income part of town. From our complex, there are no cool bars to walk to or parks within jogging distance. In fact, our complex is so far removed from any business that Uber drivers and friends alike struggle to find our street. When we moved into our unit in 2019, we were in a mad dash to find housing and this became home because this was the first complex to accept our application.

We planned to make the apartment work for a year or two and then move somewhere that matched our lives a little more: the lively gayborhood, the beautiful barrio, or even the trendy hipster enclave. So we made our apartment comfortable but didn’t settle in for the long haul.

Our dream of moving up and out seemed to be on the cusp of realization in mid-2020. I secured a promotion at work, we were saving massive amounts of money due to the statewide quarantine, and we started fantasizing about a two-bedroom near a park or little corner market.

But right as we started to look for places, the housing market exploded. Apartments that had only been $1500 in 2019 were suddenly renting for $2300+. It seemed everyone had the same idea we did.

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Sondra Rose Marie
Sondra Rose Marie

Written by Sondra Rose Marie

I write about things people don't bring up in polite conversation: race, death, mental health, and so much more ✨ www.srmcreative.co

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I once lived in a little studio, but somehow I was able to transform it into something so pretty and cozy that I still think of it fondly.
When I was small I had a copy of A Little Princess with illustrations by Tasha Tudor. In the story a wealthy…

That outfit you’re saving for “a special occasion,” the good champagne you’re waiting for a reason to open, and yes, the living situation you’ve got now can all be enjoyed fully in the ...

This is such a healthy mindset. I try to do this with most aspects of my life -- but it can be challenging at times. Thanks for the perspective! 😌👏

That outfit you’re saving for “a special occasion,”

I experienced my self when I just enter the high school.. My mom got me white trousers with quality premium..
I love the trousers a lot so, I just wore in specific events.
Less than one year, the pants were tight around my waist because I was growing…